I was so nervous when I started on the chat lines because it was before I came out to my friends, family, and network. I knew I had sexual feelings towards men but it was deeply repressed but when I became an adult and left my family’s home, I thought I should explore it. So I heard about the gay chat lines and gave it a call. In the beginning, my phone calls were innocent. I would talk about my job, where I lived, and what my hobbies were. Other people spoke to me about coming out or their in-person boyfriends. In the beginning, a few men tried to be sexual with me and I would get a hard on every time but then get scared and hang up the call. 

Then I met someone that helped me a whole lot and took his time to get to know me. He listened to me and I felt really comfortable with him. I told him about my situation with my family and how I am not out and how I never really had a sexual experience with a guy but wanted to. He was amazing and eased me into phone sex after a few dates over the phone. I now am out and have met several guys from the chat lines and finally feel comfortable in my own skin. The chat lines helped me become who I am today. I have so much gratitude for trying it out and meeting the people I am attractive to. 

The chat lines are open 24/7 and you will be instantly connected with a single guy who lives in your area. You can really speak about anything and build strong bonds with amazing humans. Give phone dating a chance and learn more about yourself and others.