With in-person and online dating, how you look is the first thing that matters typically. You have to present yourself a certain way and keep appearances up. But with phone dating, all that materialistic crap can be left until you actually know the person. You don’t have to be distracted by how someone looks or how much money they flash around. Instead, you can have meaningful conversations and see how well you connect in this interpersonal manner. The chat lines are open 24 hours a day and every day of the week so you can call and talk to new single guys whenever you want.
Plus, after a long day of work and other responsibilities, you are likely not wanting to have to get ready to go out again. You never know who you are going to meet in-person and it takes a lot of time and energy to prepare for an in-person date. With a phone date, you can just jump on your telephone and instantly get connected to a new guy and if it doesn’t work out, it’s not a big deal as you can just end the conversation. And you can always redial the chat line number to speak with someone new. You don’t have to worry about the drive home, what you’re going to wear, and if it doesn’t go well at least you didn’t spend money on drinks and food while out with a stranger. On the telephone, you can take your time and get to know someone well prior to putting in a lot of energy into the relationship.
This takes a lot of the pressure off of you for you to simply be yourself. You can truly build genuine connections on the chat lines because all the materialistic notions are not at the forefront of your mind and you can have conversations about your interests, desires, and goals instead.
